I met Mistress Michelle who is a financial Domme some years ago, after interviewing her for my first article on financial domination. She went on to also contribute to this book and we have remained firm friends. She is our first guest in a series of ’10 Questions with…’ interviews that I ‘m running on an occasional basis.
The short definition of Financial Domination is that it refers to the practice of willing, submissive men paying money or giving tributes to a Dominant woman without expecting anything in return. This practice is generally always done only online and the Mistress generally humiliates the slave verbally for tribuiting her. You can read more about Financial Domination in my article on the subject by going over to the Articles and Resources tab.
Q: You live in the US, where do you find most of your financial contributors come from?
- I get a lot from the UK which I’ve always found very interesting. Then the rest are mainly US.
Q: You are very open about what you do and how you earn a living: how has the reaction been from family and friends to your career?
The reaction has always been positive by my friends. They find it fascinating and a few things about quite hysterical…like the little dick humiliation etc. As far as my family the only ones that know about it are my kids and my brother and his wife. Just not sure how the parents would handle it, LOL.
Q: What is the worst part of being a Financial Domme?
Fakes and liars! Some are very good and even though I’ve been doing this for a very long time, it’s still hard sometimes to spot a fake loser.
Q What is the largest amount of money you have ever been given by a man?
Years ago, my number one Loser gave me $25,000 the first 2 weeks I owned him.
Q: What do you enjoy most about your career?
Setting my own hours, being my own boss, etc, and also the gradual taking over of their minds and the control, he he he.
Q Most women would say they could do your job in a heartbeat, but it requires far more than saying ‘give me money.” What skills do you think a successful Fin Domme such as yourself needs to have?
There is a psychology to it and every loser is different. The ones I’ve owned for a long time I can tell you exactly what they are thinking etc. You develop a relationship with them. You can’t just say ‘give me your money’ and then be done with it. True it is all about me….however you do need to give them something in return even if its just a few moments of your precious time.
Q: what were some of your previous jobs?
Most of them were admin assistants in various offices-and then also as a phone sex operator.
Q: What do you like to do to relax as far as hobbies or interests go?
I love to travel (especially when the trips are paid for by Losers, LOL), movies, I have my fave tv shows, going to the beach etc. I also have taken a big interest in the paranormal since a trip to Gettysburg last summer resulted in some ghostly experiences and me capturing the apparition of a soldier on the battlefield.
Q: What sort of music do you enjoy?
Most any kind although I am partial to rock…classic and new. My fave band is Aerosmith and that is why my first tattoo was related to the lyrics of one of their songs.
Q: What is your favourite meal?
Seafood, any kind – I love it all, but lobster and crab are my favourites
Mistress Michelle can be found at www.drainyourwallet.com, however discretion is advised as this is website contains adult material not suitable for those under 18.
I guess I’m not a loser, I like my money!! Sorry dear!!
I told my grdanomtehr how you helped. She said, bake them a cake!
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