10 Questions with Mistress Mynx

Mistress Mynx is a fellow Australian and has been a personal friend for many years.  She has been involved in the BDSM Scene for a long time and recently became a Prodomme.

Q: What form of domination do you get asked for most commonly?
 Hmm that is a most interesting question. I find clients come and go in stages and along with that their fetishes and desires. Lately I have been asked for corporal (straps, caning and paddles) foot worship, boot worship  as well as restraint and body slamming. Some seek to obey Mistress and her demands some seek to explore their fetish in a Dungeon but not necessarily as an exploration of pain. 

 Q: What is your pet hate in regard to clients?
Ha! Well inadequate personal hygiene and clients that try to get an extra service without prior negotiation or confirmation. By this I mean body worship. But most of all “fullers” those who waste my time with email inquiries that amount to nothing. 

Q: what is one type of BDSM play you would never do with a lover or a client?
 Two completely different ways of thinking for me. I have a deep emotional response to my lover so enjoy their pleasure   and would know how to connect emotionally with them both in a play sense and sexually. There would not necessarily be boundaries with a long term lover I trust. In a play sense I enjoy exploring and if I wanted to go further in a deep head space I would still discuss and plan especially if it was exploring something new.   

BDSM play with clients has strict boundaries for me.  I do not have sex with clients. There is some play that I mentally may not connect with such as Age play; changing nappies etc. Not for me. But hey never say never.

 Q: What is your idea of a wonderful personal pamper session?
 Easy… Being completely immersed in a holistic spa treatment. Where there is silence and stillness. A respectfulness to mind body breath and spirit. 

Q: What were some of your previous jobs?
I have worked extensively with people of all ages with high support needs. Both with learning challenges and mobility. Also I work as a Fitness Trainer. Teaching a variety of classes ranging from high energy/intensity to wellness. Being a Personal Trainer is a definite outlet for my penchant for teaching correct technique and motivating my clients to attain their fitness/wellness goals. I have worked as a dancer and also had my own group where I  developed my choreography. I loved performing and the wonderful expression of movement. As an artist I seek to develop a creative expression whatever area I am working in.

 Q: How have you found the experience of translating your lifestyle into a paid form of employment?
This has definitely been a journey for me.  As a woman who first came into the scene from a Fetish perspective to then exploring my dominant nature in varying D/s relationships and learning various Bdsm practices. Becoming a Professional Domina is a process. Working successfully in a Dungeon requires correct training, experience and of course patience lol.  

Q: If  you could give one word of advice to women considering becoming a professional Domme, what would that be?
Oh limiting me to one word!   Effort; put the effort in…. be prepared to learn, take advice, also to become a good communicator. It’s one thing to look the part it’s another to OWN it.  

Q: What sort  of music do you enjoy?
I am an eclectic soul. I love different genres of music ranging from classical music from Bachs cello suites to jazz Coltrane style to latin music you can shake your booty to. Being a Fitness Instructor puts me at an advantage to hearing and using many styles of music.  

Q: What’s your idea of a favourite meal?
Yummy Thai food shared with those closest me. Lots of love, laughter and great conversation.  

Q: Are there any new and exciting projects on your horizon?
 I’d love to get my web site up and steam rolling ahead. I seek to explore and learn more about being a Pro Domme refining my skills and putting them into practice. 

I also am a presenter of The art of foot pampering skillshare  through the Adrenachrome skillshares offered to life stylers in the scene. I’d love to present another  skillshare with stretching techniques pre post play.